Officiating an elopement and not sure what to say? This guide walks you through what an officiant says at a wedding, how to structure an elopement ceremony, sample scripts, vow ideas, and personal touches—so the ceremony feels heartfelt, not awkward.

Eloping isn’t “running away to get married” anymore. It’s an intentional, stress-free way to get married that actually feels like you. Here’s what eloping really means today, how it works in BC, and how to know if it’s right for you.

Elopements aren’t about following rules! They’re about creating your own. Whether you want a laid-back backyard gathering or a luxe dinner party, there’s no “right way” to do it. It’s your marriage, your celebration, your rules.

Here’s the truth: eloping doesn’t mean shutting people out. It means creating a day that’s true to you. And with the right words, your family can still feel valued, loved, and included even if they’re not physically there.