Microwedding vs. Elopement: Which is Right For You?
You’ve already decided that a big, traditional wedding with its fuss and formality isn’t your style. But what’s the difference between a microwedding and an elopement? And, more importantly, which is the right choice for your upcoming nuptials?
Simply put, elopements are all about you, your partner, and maybe a handful of your closest loved ones (like 1 to 4 people tops). There’s no big reception, no fuss—just a day that’s intentionally focused on your love story. It’s no wonder that more couples are ditching the big wedding scene in favour of keeping things intimate and stress-free with an elopement.
Microweddings, on the other hand, let you have the best of both worlds. You get that beautiful ceremony with all your most important friends and family (maybe 15 to 40 guests) without the chaos, expense, and pressure of a big event. Whether you make it your own unique celebration or keep it as a scaled-down classic, a microwedding is all about creating a day that feels right for you.
Which option best fits your vibe? To find the answer to your question, we got nostalgic and created a quiz similar to the ones in the teen magazines we grew up with. So, microwedding or elopement? Take our fun quiz to find out which is right for you!
1. How many people do you want to share your day with?
A. Just us!
B. Us and one or two of our closest friends or family members.
C. A small group of our friends and family.
2. What kind of experience are you looking for?
A. Something adventurous and unique!
B. Something simple, private, and personal.
C. Something small that can still honour our family’s traditions.
3. Do you want a detailed itinerary or a more flexible day?
A. We prefer to go with the flow and let the day unfold naturally.
B. We want some structure but are happy to let the day transform itself.
C. We want a plan, like a ceremony followed by dinner or a small reception.
4. What’s your priority for the big day?
A. Adventure to a special spot & epic photos to commemorate the day.
B. Intimacy. We’re all about the ceremony and personal experience.
C. Celebrating with our most important loved ones.
5. Where do you want to have your wedding?
A. We’re looking for a unique location where we can say our vows.
B. We already have the perfect spot in mind!
C. We want a beautiful venue that accommodates a few guests.
6. How do you feel about the planning process?
A. We want it to be quick and easy to plan. Less stress, more love.
B. We don’t mind a bit more coordination to make sure our closest people can join.
C. Let me show you the Pinterest board I’ve been curating since I was 13!
YOUR SCORE:
Give yourself 1 point for every A, 2 points for every B, and 3 points for every C.
Now add them up!
6-10 points
An elopement is in your future! You’re absolutely in the right place as an adventurous elopement is the perfect beginning to the adventure of spending the rest of your lives together! Ready to plan your dream elopement? Check out our sea, sky, and earth elopement packages. We have something just for you!
11-13 points
More consideration is best. Your special day is an important milestone and it’s crucial to plan it according to what will make you happiest. Email us to chat about your wedding dreams and we can work together to plan something that truly fits your desires.
14-18 points
A microwedding is probably your best choice! You want something small, something personalized, something unique… and something that embraces the friends and family important to you. We’re here to help you plan the perfect special day. Check out our team to see all the ways we can make your microwedding a macro success!
No matter which path you choose—microwedding, elopement, traditional celebration, or something totally unique—your wedding should be a reflection of you and your love story. There’s no “one-size-fits-all” when it comes to saying "I do," and the best part is, you get to make the rules!
Ready to start planning the wedding that feels just right for you? The sky isn't even the limit with Sea to Sky Elopements. Contact us today, and let’s create something unforgettable!
Photo by Chelsea Abram Photography
