6 Common Misconceptions About Elopements

Photo by Laura Olson Photography 

Elopements have evolved over the past few generations—especially in the last handful of years! What was once whispered about as a “hush-hush” way to wed has transformed into an adventure filled with choice, freedom, and personal flair. Nowadays, couples embrace elopements not because they have to, but because they want to. Despite this shift, the word "elopement" can still carry baggage and misconceptions. So, let's debunk some of the most common myths about elopement…

1. Elopements Aren’t as Special as “Real” Weddings

This is far from the truth! Just because there isn’t a large guest list doesn’t make an elopement any less meaningful. In fact, they can often feel even more meaningful because the focus is entirely on the couple. Without the distractions of managing a big event or worrying about family dynamics, couples can immerse themselves in the magic of their love story. Your wedding day is about you and your partner, and an elopement can allow you to create a day full of personal, intimate moments without the pressure of pleasing others.

2. Elopements Are “Cheap”

While elopements can be more cost-effective, they are not “cheap.” Elopements allow for a more intentional spending approach, where couples invest in the things that matter most to them, rather than on the scale and guest count. For example, a $12,000 budget for a large DIY wedding may require many sacrifices, but the same amount for an elopement can offer unforgettable experiences like a private helicopter ride, golden hour photoshoots, or unique locations. Elopements can be a luxurious and personalized celebration, giving you the flexibility to spend in ways that make your day extraordinary.

3. Eloping Is Selfish

The idea that eloping is selfish often stems from concerns about family and friends feeling left out. However, your wedding day should reflect your desires, not other people’s expectations. Eloping isn’t about excluding loved ones—it’s about celebrating your relationship in a way that feels right for you. If you’re worried about hurting anyone’s feelings, there are plenty of ways to include them outside of the big day. You can create a wedding website to share your experience, host a post-elopement party, or send out marriage announcements with photos and personal notes. Your wedding is about your happiness and your reasons for eloping are valid. 

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4. Elopements Are Just a Courthouse Visit

When people think of elopements, many often imagine a quick trip to the courthouse and nothing more. While courthouse elopements can be charming, they’re just one option. Modern elopements can take place anywhere, from mountain peaks to secluded beaches. For many, an elopement is a special adventure!

Additionally, couples often invite a few close friends or family members to join them, making it an intentionally intimate event. In this way, many elopements now resemble “microweddings,” with smaller guest lists but no shortage of thoughtful planning and beautiful details. (Check out our fun blog on “Microweddings vs. Elopements” to learn the difference!)

5. Elopements Are Rushed

Contrary to the belief that elopements are hastily thrown together, many couples spend months planning every detail of their elopement. From coordinating travel to selecting vendors and personalizing decor, an elopement often involves just as much preparation as a traditional wedding. For couples looking to skip the stress of detailed planning, all-inclusive elopement packages provide a perfect solution. Sea to Sky Elopements offers All-Inclusive Elopement Packages featuring stunning natural settings—from coastal landscapes to mountain peaks and even sky-high experiences via helicopter. Special add-ons allow you to customize your celebration further, so you can truly focus on enjoying your day. Eloping isn’t about rushing; it’s about crafting a meaningful day that’s authentically you!

6. Elopements Lack Tradition

Eloping doesn’t mean abandoning traditions unless that’s your choice! Couples who elope can still incorporate traditions meaningful to them, whether it’s exchanging vows, wearing a white dress, or having a first dance. The beauty of eloping is that it gives couples the freedom to choose which traditions to keep and which to set aside. It’s an opportunity to blend the old with the new and start your own unique traditions as a couple. Every element of your elopement can be as traditional or as modern as you want. It’s your chance to make the day your own and create a wedding that will be special and meaningful to you both.

Photo by Chelsea Abram Photography

Elopements Are a Beautiful Option

Ultimately, there’s no right or wrong way to get married! Gone are the days when weddings had to follow a set script. Now, elopements offer a personalized, intentional way to celebrate your love. They give couples the freedom to focus on what’s important to them—whether that’s the location, the experience, or simply being together. Elopements are a beautiful alternative to large weddings, and can be just as meaningful!

Plan Your Dream Elopement with Sea to Sky Elopements! We specialize in creating unforgettable, stress-free elopements. With our all-inclusive elopement packages in BC and across Canada, we guide you every step of the way, ensuring your day is perfect. You’ll leave with cherished memories, full hearts, and beautiful photographs that last a lifetime.